Traditionally a woman is that person who is to be more compromise in a family relation. At the same time a working woman gets less time for her natural and traditional duties – devoting time to home, giving birth and raising the children.
Once I had an opportunity to communicate with a foreigner who shared with an interesting theory. He asked, why people divorce. And answered, the matter is they do not speak similar language. What languages did he mean?
Negativism is a part of an every day life. Negative people, negative feelings, negative conduct… Is it something that a person need? The family coaches suggest another scenario of a life – without those things which make a life unhappy.
Compromising in every life situation is an ideal way to solve the problems. It concerns every sphere of a family life. Stubbornness and silliness are not the friends of a happy marriage.
There is an analogy of a family work with a job. What's the main reason for the successful and productive work? A good time management. It is a pity that there are only twenty four hours of a day time. But, it is a good opportunity to check your time management abilities. They say that if you learn how to manage a sole person, there is nothing hard to manage... two of you – your small family.
In fact, sex in the morning is the best remedy against sleep. Then the plan is like the following one: quick breakfast, washing, dressing up, running to the office, having a short lunch, and running home in evening, cooking, eating, and sleeping. And the day is over. But what about reading a favourite book, watching an interesting movie, going out or chatting with your beloved? It is possible to find time for every business of yours. It is just worthy learning the main rules of the successful family time management.
Check how you use your time. Sometimes you do not have a clear picture how you spend time. In the morning you plan to spend two hours to dress, but you notice that two hours are not enough and you are late as usual. Try to write down what actions you make for two hours. Perhaps you will find the useless ones.
Make a plan. A clear and definite plan for a week or a month could help you to arrange your days in the most comfortable way. Then you may hear the delightful exclamations of your friends "You are a talented time manager!".
Use short time periods firstly. Making a time plan, do not try to cover a long time period. Start with a day time planning. Soon you will be able to manage a month time, if you really like this system.
Be accurate, but flexible. If you write down that you have to be at home at six p.m. and you can not make this plan real, do not be upset. Be ready to correct your time plan in a reasonable way.