Traditionally a woman is that person who is to be more compromise in a family relation. At the same time a working woman gets less time for her natural and traditional duties – devoting time to home, giving birth and raising the children.
Once I had an opportunity to communicate with a foreigner who shared with an interesting theory. He asked, why people divorce. And answered, the matter is they do not speak similar language. What languages did he mean?
Negativism is a part of an every day life. Negative people, negative feelings, negative conduct… Is it something that a person need? The family coaches suggest another scenario of a life – without those things which make a life unhappy.
Compromising in every life situation is an ideal way to solve the problems. It concerns every sphere of a family life. Stubbornness and silliness are not the friends of a happy marriage.
A happy family life depends on many factors. Sometimes it is not a family coach who is to care about your family happiness and work out a plan of a family successful living. No, sometimes people really need a professional help – of the psychiatrists and mental doctors.
There is a sad statistic that family tyrants are usually those people who suffer mental disorders. The symptom is aggressive behavior which is replaced with the paroxysms of regret. Then he/she asks to be forgiven praying that this attack is for the last time. But comprehension of all-forgiving makes him/her be crueler later.
Unfortunately, an attacked person does not understand danger quickly. It is used to think that everything will be fine, later, not now, but later... and a person does not abandon hope for the better times in spite of the aggressive quarreling, cowed children, and beating. But nothing promises to be ok.
Other symptoms of mental disease are unusual behavior, calmness, ignorance, estrangement, loss of appetite. A very bright example of a family person who is going off his head is presented in a movie "A Beautiful Mind".
They are not guilty about that. Simply, one day everything went wrong, but now they need help.