Traditionally a woman is that person who is to be more compromise in a family relation. At the same time a working woman gets less time for her natural and traditional duties – devoting time to home, giving birth and raising the children.
Once I had an opportunity to communicate with a foreigner who shared with an interesting theory. He asked, why people divorce. And answered, the matter is they do not speak similar language. What languages did he mean?
Negativism is a part of an every day life. Negative people, negative feelings, negative conduct… Is it something that a person need? The family coaches suggest another scenario of a life – without those things which make a life unhappy.
Compromising in every life situation is an ideal way to solve the problems. It concerns every sphere of a family life. Stubbornness and silliness are not the friends of a happy marriage.
Negativism is a part of an every day life. Negative people, negative feelings, negative conduct... Is it something that a person need? The family coaches suggest another scenario of a life – without those things which make a life unhappy. Jealousy is one of them. Let's try to understand the reasons of this peculiarity if a family life is harmonious, but inner worms disturb you. Usually a person who does not get enough attention and support in a family tries to find some disadvantages. The roots of excessive jealousy are in the parents' problems or personal upbringing. A person, who does not respect himself, doubts in personal success, empathy, beauty, strong features of the character. He/she starts with finding out his/her personal bad treats and ends with an only thought "I am too bad; he/she does not like me for what I am". Sometimes a partner makes his/her second half think in such a way as it makes him/her feel pleased, happy, and important. Or a person understands that he/she does not correspond to his personal idea about an ideal partner ("I can not earn money", "I am not a good housewife", "I am not so sociable" and so on). This difference in a life style of the partners tends to become a large gap little by little. Suspect grows, and one day a person finds himself examining the pockets of a husband/wife to find a strange article or reading his sms box.
Crying, screaming, aggressive quarreling... I doubt that any person expects it in a family life. So, if you understand that your suspects are groundless, it is better to start personal improving in order to draw away your attention from the obsessions.