Traditionally a woman is that person who is to be more compromise in a family relation. At the same time a working woman gets less time for her natural and traditional duties – devoting time to home, giving birth and raising the children.
Once I had an opportunity to communicate with a foreigner who shared with an interesting theory. He asked, why people divorce. And answered, the matter is they do not speak similar language. What languages did he mean?
Negativism is a part of an every day life. Negative people, negative feelings, negative conduct… Is it something that a person need? The family coaches suggest another scenario of a life – without those things which make a life unhappy.
Compromising in every life situation is an ideal way to solve the problems. It concerns every sphere of a family life. Stubbornness and silliness are not the friends of a happy marriage.
A woman is proposed a main role in a family. Traditionally a woman is that person who is to be more compromise in a family relation. At the same time a working woman gets less time for her natural and traditional duties – devoting time to home, giving birth and raising the children. The social disorder prevents a woman to develop her personality in many aspects (as a society expects her to be a wife, a mother, a worker at the same time). Negative role is assigned to the traditional division of the male and female duties. Automation of a house core is an advantage, but the division is left. As a result, a woman makes a double work. As a matter of fact, this topic is observed in the feministic light nowadays. That is why a new stereotype turns out in a modern society. Many women are sure in a light-headed, easy and careless life of the men.
But it is just worthy thinking a little. Have you ever heard about a man who raises the children as a single parent? Yes, it is a rare case as the family duties are put on the feminine weak shoulders, but the opposite situations exist. A society is so excited to play this game – feminism, the equality of the rights; as a result sometimes a role of a man in a family goes to the minimum. As a friend of mine says "He could bring his salary once in a month and then disappear".
To ask some men, they feel that they are unhappy in a family. A man comes to the conclusion that he does not want his son to experience his fate. It is so difficult to be "a real man" next to "a real woman". Actually, I am not against the equality of the rights in a family, I am against total feminization of a society.