Traditionally a woman is that person who is to be more compromise in a family relation. At the same time a working woman gets less time for her natural and traditional duties – devoting time to home, giving birth and raising the children.
Once I had an opportunity to communicate with a foreigner who shared with an interesting theory. He asked, why people divorce. And answered, the matter is they do not speak similar language. What languages did he mean?
Negativism is a part of an every day life. Negative people, negative feelings, negative conduct… Is it something that a person need? The family coaches suggest another scenario of a life – without those things which make a life unhappy.
Compromising in every life situation is an ideal way to solve the problems. It concerns every sphere of a family life. Stubbornness and silliness are not the friends of a happy marriage.
Positive and negative. As for me, I do not like negative feelings and try to avoid them or solve as soon as it is possible. Unfortunately fear is not easy to root out. Usually they are deeply in mind. Sometimes they put a mask of the principles. So, let's fight fears together, because it is the last thing we need in a family relation.
Usually a woman is afraid to make something wrong in a family life and to be called a bad housewife, careless mother or a fragile lover, especially if she is told about it every day. "This soup is not tasty", "Why do the kids cry all the time?", "You are fat" – these words can make every woman feel uncomfortable. The trouble is in elementary politeness, actually, if there is no love in a family life.
As for a man, he is afraid of losing his respectful and dominative position in a family. A wise and loving woman would never make a man feel miserable, unsuccessful, and pitiful. At least treat people how you would like to be treated.
It is worthy being critical - both a man and a woman are to be blamed for the definite reasons. At least, nobody would like to care of a really lazy, negative, light-headed person who does not want anything in a life, besides riding your back till the end of your days.