Traditionally a woman is that person who is to be more compromise in a family relation. At the same time a working woman gets less time for her natural and traditional duties – devoting time to home, giving birth and raising the children.
Once I had an opportunity to communicate with a foreigner who shared with an interesting theory. He asked, why people divorce. And answered, the matter is they do not speak similar language. What languages did he mean?
Negativism is a part of an every day life. Negative people, negative feelings, negative conduct… Is it something that a person need? The family coaches suggest another scenario of a life – without those things which make a life unhappy.
Compromising in every life situation is an ideal way to solve the problems. It concerns every sphere of a family life. Stubbornness and silliness are not the friends of a happy marriage.
Who is a guardian angel of a family? Traditionally it is used to devote this role to a woman. She is to keep harmony in a family as a woman is theoretically more empathetic, tender, supportive and emotional. In his turn, a man traditionally is to be a provider and supporter. There are some models of the family money management – he earns, she wastes; they earn, they waste; she earns, he wastes.... It is possible to list the combinations endlessly and every combination could become appropriate.
At least, every psychologist assures that the worse family organization is an authoritarian family. This kind of a family is defined with a strict division – that mate who earns has more rights and fewer duties. Usually, it is a woman who is caught in such a situation. But it is not worthy protecting such a woman from her "gold cage". The matter is that sometimes the women are happy in it and do not plan to change something, especially if the material wealth is supported with love, tenderness and care.
Another variant maximum is when a woman earns more than a man does. Usually it provides the quarreling as the traditional points of view are dominative - they press both a man and a woman.
Well, in spite of the liberal moods in a society, nobody ruins the traditional way of a family life.