Traditionally a woman is that person who is to be more compromise in a family relation. At the same time a working woman gets less time for her natural and traditional duties – devoting time to home, giving birth and raising the children.
Once I had an opportunity to communicate with a foreigner who shared with an interesting theory. He asked, why people divorce. And answered, the matter is they do not speak similar language. What languages did he mean?
Negativism is a part of an every day life. Negative people, negative feelings, negative conduct… Is it something that a person need? The family coaches suggest another scenario of a life – without those things which make a life unhappy.
Compromising in every life situation is an ideal way to solve the problems. It concerns every sphere of a family life. Stubbornness and silliness are not the friends of a happy marriage.
One more condition for the healthy and happy relationships in a family is warm relationship between all the members. As a matter of fact, the relationships between a mother and a daughter can not be neutral by some reasons. At least in her daughter a mom finds herself; she wants her daughter to be happy, of course, if a mother is an adequate and non-selfish woman. My female friend used to take care of her mother for the last ten years as her dearest person does not even imagine another way of a relation and likes to be cared of. It is an opposite example, but usually the mothers used to protect and support their daughters. Unfortunately the atmosphere is not positive sometimes. The reason is that they belong to the different generations. They have opposite thoughts and ideas. But it is normal. Closer to the age of thirty five the daughter achieve this level of the development when everything seems to be fine. In addition, a baby could bring them together as a girl becomes a woman, like her mother, and experience the same feelings, troubles and joys.
The psychologists are sure that a mother is one of the most important people in a life of any woman, but at the same time it is not worthy drawing a mother to the most personal events and, especially, family matters. It is logically that a mom would stand dead for her daughter and take her side no matter what's her daughter's guilt in any sad family occasion.
So, make your own decision, don't forget your parents and let happiness reign in your family.