Traditionally a woman is that person who is to be more compromise in a family relation. At the same time a working woman gets less time for her natural and traditional duties – devoting time to home, giving birth and raising the children.
Once I had an opportunity to communicate with a foreigner who shared with an interesting theory. He asked, why people divorce. And answered, the matter is they do not speak similar language. What languages did he mean?
Negativism is a part of an every day life. Negative people, negative feelings, negative conduct… Is it something that a person need? The family coaches suggest another scenario of a life – without those things which make a life unhappy.
Compromising in every life situation is an ideal way to solve the problems. It concerns every sphere of a family life. Stubbornness and silliness are not the friends of a happy marriage.
The flowers of out live sometimes are like the roses... thorny... or cactuses... They cause the problems and troubles. It is used to accept them as a highest will and happiness. A bad word is not the worse thing a child can do. A child who leaves his house is more often than not. At least a family is traditional, there is a mother, there is a father, do not drink, work, care of each other and the kids... But what's wrong? The statistic says that this grief touches usually the families with an only child. A child could be raised in the highest morals and values, but sometimes the process of the upbringing goes wrong. A child is too cherishes, supported, cared, pampered, but unfortunately he is not taught to be thankful for that. No deny is accepted. Ingratitude is a usual reaction to this. The hardest cases result into home leaving. The problem is that a child does not know how to live without the parents and can experience very hard life conditions.
Another reason for the leaving home is quarreling with the parents. A child thinks that his parents do not understand him, they are too old-fashioned – so, how could they advice if they are totally ignorant about his personal problems! The resource of such thoughts is maximalism.
The worse thing a parent can do in this situation is to go with the stream and display ignorance. The worse thing a child is going to do is to leave home where "nobody loves him".